Would You Consider This a Good Marriage?

[Chado1]

You cannot "Research" falling in love savage. Are you fucken kidding me? This isn't a car, or a wager or a couch. It is a fucken wife and you comparing it to a GOY is so fucken dillusional.

How does your wife feel when somebody asked how you met and she says "My Husband did 4 months of research and picked me." That is so fucken whacked savage. Those little romance tours have ladies lined up and waiting to be chosen. If you think any differently, you are fucken CRAZY!!!!

It is sickening to me that you would compare searching for a wife to researching a wager. You are so fucken far out of touch with reality. She would have fallen in love with me if i was there the day before you. Hell, she would have fallen in love with Rupaul if he/she beat you there.

Falling in love is not scheduled through agencies and plane rides to foreign countries savage. If you think that is falling in love, good for you. Most have a VERY different view on it though as you have seen.

You act like you met at the grocery store and fell in love. Please, it was basically a arranged marriage ... by you!

There, that's my answer.

hahahah I cant stop laughing...I missed the first flight or she could have been my wife...we would have been deeply in love not savage....

[BigWeiner]

You did your research, what about your wife did she get to do any research?

[ELJUGO]

Your post doesn't address the question posed in this discussion at all! Go back and read it again, try to understand the philosphical question asked and then respond.

I'm no longer interested in your "PHILOSOPHICAL" questions, I'd rather comment on your reality that clearly doesn't sit well with you. If it did, this thread would never be created, regardless of how much of a curious philosopher you pretend to be. Waynes post 2 or 3 up pretty much nails this whole thing right on the head.

[wayne1218]

hahahah I cant stop laughing...I missed the first flight or she could have been my wife...we would have been deeply in love not savage....

Seriously Chad, all those women are doing is an interview ... to become Wife. Plain & simple. She finally found a gig when savage accepted her resime.

[BigWeiner]

hahahah I cant stop laughing...I missed the first flight or she could have been my wife...we would have been deeply in love not savage....

You guys couldn't have been her husband, because you're not Evangelical Christians and you didn't do research.

[ELJUGO]

And for the record, I have a buddy who married a Guadalupian for 3k and 150 a month for 2 years. He's never banged her, never even stayed the night with her, he lives in Cali she lives in New York...

You've got it all wrong Savage, you're suppossed to be getting paid for this. You're the one doing the favor, although the more you say the more I'm thinking it's the other way around..

[wayne1218]

You guys couldn't have been her husband, because you're not Evangelical Christians and you didn't do research.

They have to stay married to you for what, 3 years or they are sent home. No shit the marriage is good. Does she have any other choice to make sure it is good if she wants to stay?

God damn, i could get one of these and do whatever i wanted to her for 3 years while she walks on egg shells. Cook me dinner, rub my back, have sex with me. What? No?? You sure about that answer???

3 fucken years, she is basically stuck with making it good.

[ToDaClub]

I won't even respond to this other than to say that any person who has carefully read ALL of my posts would realize that I did what with my research precisely to guard against the insincere persons you described.

I have read your posts. All you have said is you found someone 25 years younger than you, you have money, she married you. I could go to Africa and get a 18 year old to love me with out meeting me, if I have food! You preyed on the weak, go back to defending you dumbass CONDO/CAT!

[BigWeiner]

They have to stay married to you for what, 3 years or they are sent home. No shit the marriage is good. Does she have any other choice to make sure it is good if she wants to stay?

God damn, i could get one of these and do whatever i wanted to her for 3 years while she walks on egg shells. Cook me dinner, rub my back, have sex with me. What? No?? You sure about that answer???

3 fucken years, she is basically stuck with making it good.

"Now lets assume for the rest of my life she treats me like a king and as loving, caring, etc. as possible."

As possible? Does he mean as possible, considering she had no choice being with him?

[wayne1218]

"Now lets assume for the rest of my life she treats me like a king and as loving, caring, etc. as possible."

As possible? Does he mean as possible, considering she had no choice being with him?

Exactly. She either takes the deal or waits who knows how much longer for the next one.

[ELJUGO]

You guys are clearly missing the point here, go back and read the philosophical question in the first post and try again.

[wayne1218]

savage tell me this. Do you or have you ever sent her family money?

You don't seem to mind your personal life exposed and i would be SHOCKED if you said no.

[savage1]

You cannot "Research" falling in love savage. Are you fucken kidding me? This isn't a car, or a wager or a couch. It is a fucken wife and you comparing it to a GOY is so fucken dillusional.

How does your wife feel when somebody asked how you met and she says "My Husband did 4 months of research and picked me." That is so fucken whacked savage. Those little romance tours have ladies lined up and waiting to be chosen. If you think any differently, you are fucken CRAZY!!!!

It is sickening to me that you would compare searching for a wife to researching a wager. You are so fucken far out of touch with reality. She would have fallen in love with me if i was there the day before you. Hell, she would have fallen in love with Rupaul if he/she beat you there.

Falling in love is not scheduled through agencies and plane rides to foreign countries savage. If you think that is falling in love, good for you. Most have a VERY different view on it though as you have seen.

You act like you met at the grocery store and fell in love. Please, it was basically a arranged marriage ... by you!

There, that's my answer.

Not a very good answer I am afraid.
Research and investigating in my case meant weeding out the bad apples,the insincere, etc. and spending a lot of time(4 months so doing) doing it.
Delusional about what? Don't we judge by results? I have a great wife because I went about it the right way which did involve what I cited above.
Would you release a GOY on a hunch or would you get the stats and trends to back it up?
50% of marriages in the US end up in divorce-I know for a fact that marriages bewteen American men and women from Colombia or most other Latin countries is lot less.
No offene but I would put the line at about -100000 no and +8000 yes regarding whether MY wife(not some insincere woman) would have fallen in love with you had you arrived the day before I did for a variety of reasons-lets leave it at that.
Before you run your mouth, check out the success rate of marriages between marriages in this country and marriages where men from this country meet women in a foreign country(I alluded to this above).
The Agency which helped me find my wife(Foreign Affair) is considered so good that it was featured on Sixty Minutes a number of years back-they match up men and wome from all over the world.
ps-For your information the term "arranged marriage" really doesn't apply here as historically asd presently the bride and groom really had/have very little to say who they marry-I wuote;

Arranged marriage (also called prearranged marriage) is a marriage arranged by someone other than the couple getting wedded, curtailing or avoiding the process of courtship. Such marriages had deep roots in royal and aristocratic families around the world, including Europe. Today, arranged marriage is still practiced in South Asia,[1] and the Middle East to some extent.[2] Other groups that practice this custom include the Unification Movement. It should not be confused with the phenomenon of forced marriage. Arranged marriages are usually seen in Indian and African cultures, and are usually decided by the parents or an older family member.

[ToDaClub]

You guys are clearly missing the point here, go back and read the philosophical question in the first post and try again.

No, I would consider this a mix between human trafficking and prostitution. The end does not justify the means

I'm too dumb and not rich.

[Chado1]

You did your research, what about your wife did she get to do any research?

Bingo...very good point....