Would You Consider This a Good Marriage?

[wayne1218]

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I think savvy is actually shown on this site as a "Happy Customer"

Did somebody say Cartagena? Yes savage, you "Fell In Love" in Cartagena, not Catagena. It must have been so memorable!!!

[Chado1]

Four months of research does not qualify as an arranged marriage-I don't agree with those either.
The point is we wrote to each other for a while ,I went to Catagena, we both shared sinilar values, we fell in love and we have been married for almost 3 1/2 years

You think if in the very beginning she had the option of coming to America and getting a free life in a beautiful country regardless of you being there or not she wouldnt have? Fall in love LMFAO...anyone who does what you did for a wife obviously has huge emtional issues that have never been delt with in life....

[savage1]

Did somebody say Cartagena? Yes savage, you "Fell In Love" in Cartagena, not Catagena. It must have been so memorable!!!

What is your answer to post 35?
"Lifelines" are permitted. lol

[wayne1218]

Savage, I have no interest in answering your questions 5 times. Sorry buddy.

[ToDaClub]

No, I would consider this a mix between human trafficking and prostitution. The end does not justify the means

I have a friend on e-harmony or some dating site like that, he gets emails from gals in foreign countries all the time promising love if you come and get me. It's wrong to take avantage of someome in a third world country promising a good living if she says "I DO". Don't pat yourself on the back Savage saying "she loves me", she just hated being poor more!!!

[ELJUGO]

Let me see,

I'm stuck in Columbia, I probably don't have much money, or a chance at getting to the US.

You can provide me access to the US, money, and a nice situation to raise my child. Sure I'd say yes, get my kid raised up in a financially secure lifestyle then live happily ever after with all your dough when you kick the bucket. That is my answer now that you have helped me "think" about this situation. You tell me, is that a healthy marriage?

Doesn't seem like it would be too hard to fall for someone who might be a reasonable person but more importantly could dramatically change life for the better and eventually leave me enough money to support my family in columbia.

[BigWeiner]

Four months of research does not qualify as an arranged marriage-I don't agree with those either.
The point is we wrote to each other for a while ,I went to Catagena, we both shared sinilar values, we fell in love and we have been married for almost 3 1/2 years , we have an infant son and things are going quite well-who could ask for more?.
If you guys think I started the thread with the question asked because I was worried about my own situation, you are way off.
I asked a philosophical question to get you guys to think and respond-nothing more and nothing less.
It is sort of like the old question-if there is a beautiful sunset out there in the wilderness but nobody sees it, is it still a beautiful sunset?

I gotta call bullshit. Who starts a thread saying hypethically speaking, if you were in aggranged marriage and felt like your wife was only in it for money, would you think it was strange/bad marriage? Hypethically speaking of course.

[savage1]

Savage, I have no interest in answering your questions 5 times. Sorry buddy.

That is what I expected-I challenged you to something and you evade the question and back out.
Go back and find where you SPECIFICALLY answered the questions contained re: the baseball and GOY's comparisonin comparison to my going to Colombia and finding a woman.
You say youanswered that question five times, give me the specific post or posts where you answered it-name calling and insults don't qualify as an answer.
I won't accept a "I can't be bothered" response.

[ELJUGO]

I cant help but think of these situations as an American man adopting a foreign woman and raising them in the US until they have gained enough skills to survive on their own. Of course she loves you, you're providing her a better life than she ever could have had. That doesn't mean she loves you for the right reasons, anyone can follow anothers lead and let them think they have similar viewpoints in life.

[wayne1218]

Pose the question you want me to answer about JT and ask it very specifically and clearly, and I will give you my response.
ps In return how about being fair and giving me YOUR response regarding the GOY research and why specifically it is different from my "researching" finding a great wife and then an answer as to why it is ok for baseball teams to seek out talent in other countries, say using Ichiro as an example but NOT ok for me to use similar logic and seek a great wife outside of the US-I don't want sweeping generalizations-I want SPECIFIC answers.
Fair enough?

You cannot "Research" falling in love savage. Are you fucken kidding me? This isn't a car, or a wager or a couch. It is a fucken wife and you comparing it to a GOY is so fucken dillusional.

How does your wife feel when somebody asked how you met and she says "My Husband did 4 months of research and picked me." That is so fucken whacked savage. Those little romance tours have ladies lined up and waiting to be chosen. If you think any differently, you are fucken CRAZY!!!!

It is sickening to me that you would compare searching for a wife to researching a wager. You are so fucken far out of touch with reality. She would have fallen in love with me if i was there the day before you. Hell, she would have fallen in love with Rupaul if he/she beat you there.

Falling in love is not scheduled through agencies and plane rides to foreign countries savage. If you think that is falling in love, good for you. Most have a VERY different view on it though as you have seen.

You act like you met at the grocery store and fell in love. Please, it was basically a arranged marriage ... by you!

There, that's my answer.

[savage1]

I have a friend on e-harmony or some dating site like that, he gets emails from gals in foreign countries all the time promising love if you come and get me. It's wrong to take avantage of someome in a third world country promising a good living if she says "I DO". Don't pat yourself on the back Savage saying "she loves me", she just hated being poor more!!!

I won't even respond to this other than to say that any person who has carefully read ALL of my posts would realize that I did what with my research precisely to guard against the insincere persons you described.

[Chado1]

Let me see,

I'm stuck in Columbia, I probably don't have much money, or a chance at getting to the US.

You can provide me access to the US, money, and a nice situation to raise my child. Sure I'd say yes, get my kid raised up in a financially secure lifestyle then live happily ever after with all your dough when you kick the bucket. That is my answer now that you have helped me "think" about this situation. You tell me, is that a healthy marriage?

Doesn't seem like it would be too hard to fall for someone who might be a reasonable person but more importantly could dramatically change life for the better and eventually leave me enough money to support my family in columbia.

I cant help but think of these situations as an American man adopting a foreign woman and raising them in the US until they have gained enough skills to survive on their own. Of course she loves you, you're providing her a better life than she ever could have had. That doesn't mean she loves you for the right reasons, anyone can follow anothers lead and let them think they have similar viewpoints in life.

So true bro...fucking hillarious..

[savage1]

Let me see,

I'm stuck in Columbia, I probably don't have much money, or a chance at getting to the US.

You can provide me access to the US, money, and a nice situation to raise my child. Sure I'd say yes, get my kid raised up in a financially secure lifestyle then live happily ever after with all your dough when you kick the bucket. That is my answer now that you have helped me "think" about this situation. You tell me, is that a healthy marriage?

Doesn't seem like it would be too hard to fall for someone who might be a reasonable person but more importantly could dramatically change life for the better and eventually leave me enough money to support my family in columbia.

Your post doesn't address the question posed in this discussion at all! Go back and read it again, try to understand the philosphical question asked and then respond.

[Chado1]

You cannot "Research" falling in love savage. Are you fucken kidding me?

OMFG no shit...ask any psychiatrist to evaluate the emotional and mental state of why someone would do what savage did to find a wife...doesnt get much more unhealthy then that.....

[ToDaClub]

I cant help but think of these situations as an American man adopting a foreign woman and raising them in the US until they have gained enough skills to survive on their own. Of course she loves you, you're providing her a better life than she ever could have had. That doesn't mean she loves you for the right reasons, anyone can follow anothers lead and let them think they have similar viewpoints in life.

YES! I have it now, he adopted her. I hear about that all the time. Makes perfect sense now. Adopt a child/marry a gal. What a humanitarian!!!