We went to the same high school but I never actually talked to her in high school but she remembers me from then...
We had ran into each other a few times in our apartment building but I just said hi a couple times we never actually talked until last week. I seen her at the gym and approached her saying "hey neighbor" and we both knew we went to the same high school together. We talked for about 10-15 minutes about a lot of the same people we knew in high school. She is younger and used to hang around a couple of my buddies younger brothers. I remember back in high school I always thought she was hot but was always too stoned to ever go and say something to her back then. Her and her friend cam over for a bit on the weekend only about a half hour when they were drinking before they went out for the night. I added her to facebook just this week and no other conversations have been had. I think asking if she wants to grab a coffee in the form of a message to her on facebook is the best idea but I still feel that because we really only technically met for real like last week its a bit strong to early but I guess I should give it a shot anyway. I fucking suck at this shit so bad got less game than the Detroit Lions seriously...
If she rejects me she is my neighbor and I would have to see her like every other day....I dont need professional help dude I just lack heavily in the communication with opp sex department...its pathetic I know...
Rejection is a part of life!
If she rejects you that doesn't mean you won't be friends. And I'm sure she has plenty of female friends...
Next time you see her at the apartment complex ask her:
(her name) How about going and grabbing some diner sometime?
And no going out for diner is not asking too much! If you don't have the sack to do that then ask her to go out for lunch.
And one last thing, don't be concerned with her not wanting to go out after you saying she looked good. THATS ALL GOOD, girls still like compliments even if you arent gonna be the one they shack up with. There is no shame in sending the message I suggested, regardless of her reaction.
Chado, Bro, come on. 1st off. Get out of the past when you think about current "targets", you cant worry about how you "used" to talk to girls, get in the moment, you're the man...facebook is a cool way to ask, cuz it gives her the chance to comfortably reject you and at the same time if she does say yes..SWEET.
If she's already kicked it at your apt. you cant be viewed as a complete creepo, so test the water and up the ante, its not hard on facebook, you don't even have to see her. Many would probably say don't tell her she looks good in your message but I'd rather it be known up front that i see her as smokin hot that way she wont be shocked if I try something on our "date"... I'd say something like this. For what its worth..
Her Name! You looked so good at the gym yesterday Lets grab dinner and/or go see a movie sometime soon! You have such a great energy, I think we'd have fun...
Boom..Direct as hell. Strong compliment. And not too much. Try it bro, you only live once and if she doesnt show love...fuck her, you saved your time and can now focus elsewhere..CHAD, try it. Don't worry about her reaction, just bring the fire and see what she says!
Not dinner, a quick appetizer if that seems like too much....then you ain't got no game, can't help you.
How about a protein shake after a workout, if she says yes, as your sipping your shakes you could bring up the protein content in semen as conversation!
hahahaha...I actually seen her at the gym today and brought up my protein shakes like a moron...
She looked so fucking hot in her little skimpy workout outfit with her big titties damn...
Honestly dude try spending age 13-21 stoned and drunk out of your mind day in and day out having very minimal comminucation with girls other than the couple whores I banged that were also drunk and stoned out of their minds and then sobering up and trying to be on the same level of communication skills with the opp sex I have a ton of catching up to do missed out on a ton of years of strengthening this shit....
Dinner seems a little much coffee not so commital no?
She also works out at the gym I go to maybe I should ask if she wants to work out actually dont know about that one..
Not dinner, a quick appetizer if that seems like too much....then you ain't got no game, can't help you.
How about a protein shake after a workout, if she says yes, as your sipping your shakes you could bring up the protein content in semen as conversation!
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