Bad news from TMess...

[TMess]

I posted a while back about my and my girlfriend expecting our first baby....I regret to inform you that last week she experienced some complications with the pregnancy and we lost the baby. I know that this is common among pregnancies but it has just affected me more then most. My situation is a little more complex then most. My girlfriend lives in Puerto Rico and she was going to move to LA to be with me when the baby was born. After we lost the baby she took it worse then me and said she wanted nothing to do with me anymore. I feel horrible...one day I had a beautiful girl I was going to marry and a little one on the way...and now I have nothing. Havn't posted any picks in a while and don't know when I will, but I wish you all good luck...

[rob91480]

sorry to hear about that tmess, i'll keep you in my thoughts, keep your head up man

[harold_bush]

Guess that puts things like my bitching about going 0-5 tonight in perspective.

Sorry to hear this man. I've been through the miscarriage thing as well, and fortunately have two beautiful kids, so things will turn around. They way we tried to think of it was that something was severely wrong with the baby, and nature took it's course.

I know women go through a lot when this happens, and this probably isn't what you want to hear at this time, but I think you have to think of your fiance the same way. If this was enough for her just to completely want nothing to do with you, things probably wouldn't have worked out anyway.

Good luck with everything, and remember, each day things will get a little easier. I wish you the best.

[Tigger]

As much as you're going through right now, she's going through more..... keep your head up and when you can, show her support. If it's meant to be, she'll come around buddy. Good Luck in the future from one cajun to another.

~~~ Tigger

[3rdmckid]

Nice words tigger! I think hes right, just show her that you can/will be there for her and that you care more for her than anything else. Don't worry about trying to get her to love you, just prove to her that she is loved and that you hurt deeply for her want to be there in anyway possible. The other stuff will all fall into place as God sees fit to make it. I will keep you in my thoughts.........

[Meg30]

i'm so sorry to hear about your baby tmess...my deepest sympathies go out to you and your girlfriend...stay strong and hopefully you and your girlfriend will be able to work through it
Meg

[illjaunt]

My prayers are with you tmess, my sister in-law just had a miscarriage yesterday and my they are taking it real hard second one in 3 months....

[ELJUGO]

I wish you nothing but better days in the future brother. This will pass and you'll get through it stronger. My condolensces

[Spearit]

I wish you nothing but better days in the future brother. This will pass and you'll get through it stronger. My condolensces

I don't think I can say it any better TMess. The loss of your dear one and dear one to be- is tough to take- but I know you are a survivor.
Life may take some different angles for you but you will grow stronger. Cry out your emotions and then get back to what got you here in the first place. Work out harder and save for that next time that you come across your destiny again- thats all we can do- fight the good fight. Stay Strong!

[TOYER]

my prayers are with you. hang in there

[moondog22]

I am so sorry to read your loss.It is such a tragedy to lose an unborn child.I hope God will help your girl friend over come her great grief and will get back with you.

[Lsufan]

My condolences go out to you and your girlfriend. Time does heal all wounds, and I hope that things will work out between you and your girlfriend. God Bless

[10DimeBry]

So sorry to hear this Tmess. I cant imagine going thru that. I really hope that you and your girlfriend work things out. GL in future and try as hard as it may be to remain positive.

Bryan

[TheRook]

Tmess, I'm so sorry to hear about this. Being that my wife and I are expecting our first in about 7 weeks puts a lot in perspective.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

John

[Spark]

Sorry to hear this TMESS ... Hope you and your girlfriend can get by this tragedy ... best to you