Chado "in date" thread

[tech fan]

If It Does Not Work Out I Am Going To Let You In On A Little Secret I Have So Far It Has A 87% Succes Rate For Me I Dont Know Man Really Dont Know If You Are Ready For It Or Not.

[Chado1]

HEY BUDDY IN ALL SERIOUSNESS I WISH YOU COULD COME DOWN HERE AND WATCH ME WORK IT FOR YA
SHE LOOKS SOPHISTICATED SO THAT MEANS YOU NEED TO STEP BACK AND LET HER CHASE YOU.NEXT TIME YOU HAVE PLANS TO GO OUT CALL HER AND CANCEL SAYING YOU ARE SORRY SOMETHING CAME UP.WOMEN ALWAYS ALWAYS I MEAN ALWAYS WANT WHAT THEY CANT GET.THEN AFTER THE DATE TELL HE I WILL CALL YOU TOMORROW THEN DONT.WHEN YOU SEE HER AT WORK JUST BE NORMAL AND POLITE BUT NOT TO PUSHY.YOU WILL HAVE HER BEGGING FOR YOU TO CALL HER.IF YOU TRY TO HARD SHE WILL BE TURNED OFF BY YOUR AGRESIVENESS.TRUST ME I AM THE MAN AT THESE THINGS.

Funny you say this cause thats exactly what I have NOT been doing an is probably a big reason why it hasnt worked out...thanks for the advice after the fact...where have you been?

Well at least I know this for the future and any other girls I totally agree...playing hard to get is the best way for sure huh...

[Chado1]

If It Does Not Work Out I Am Going To Let You In On A Little Secret I Have So Far It Has A 87% Succes Rate For Me I Dont Know Man Really Dont Know If You Are Ready For It Or Not.

[Chado1]

IF YOU TRY TO HARD SHE WILL BE TURNED OFF BY YOUR AGRESIVENESS.TRUST ME I AM THE MAN AT THESE THINGS.

This is what I did all week at work frequently talking to her and probably blew it for me....

[tech fan]

Funny you say this cause thats exactly what I have NOT been doing an is probably a big reason why it hasnt worked out...thanks for the advice after the fact...where have you been?

Well at least I know this for the future and any other girls I totally agree...playing hard to get is the best way for sure huh...

ITS NOT PLAYING HARD BUDDY, THAT TURNS GIRLS OFF. BECAUSE THEY FEEL LIKE THAT YOU THINK YOU ARE TO GOOD FOR THEM.YOU BE NICE AND COMPLIMENT THEM JUST DONT GO OVERBOARD.STATISTICS SHOW THAT A WOMAN WILL GO OUT ON A SECOND DATE NOT BECAUSE OF HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT YOU BUT HOW YOU MAKE THEM FEEL ABOUT THEMSELVES.

GOD I AM GIVING OUT ALL MY SECRETS FOR FREE

[tech fan]

This is what I did all week at work frequently talking to her and probably blew it for me....

KEEP YOUR HEAD UP SOLDIER NOT OVER YET JUST HAVE TO CHANGE YOUR PLANS

[Chado1]

ITS NOT PLAYING HARD BUDDY, THAT TURNS GIRLS OFF. BECAUSE THEY FEEL LIKE THAT YOU THINK YOU ARE TO GOOD FOR THEM.YOU BE NICE AND COMPLIMENT THEM JUST DONT GO OVERBOARD.STATISTICS SHOW THAT A WOMAN WILL GO OUT ON A SECOND DATE NOT BECAUSE OF HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT YOU BUT HOW YOU MAKE THEM FEEL ABOUT THEMSELVES.

GOD I AM GIVING OUT ALL MY SECRETS FOR FREE

Where the fuck were you Jerry at the beginning man?? I could have used this...I have been doing everything the opposite of what you keep saying...

[Chado1]

KEEP YOUR HEAD UP SOLDIER NOT OVER YET JUST HAVE TO CHANGE YOUR PLANS

Based on what you have said you seem to have been in a similar situation or two to what I am in right now. So do you agree with the ingoring thing that I am planning on doing next week with just subtle "hellos" and "how was your day" type stuff but nothing serious until she asks me "whats up" or "are you mad at me?"

[tech fan]

Where the fuck where you at Jerry at the beginning man?? I could have used this...I have been doing everything the opposite of what you keep saying...

SORRY BUDDY BEEN BUSY JUST TRUST ME I WILL WALK YOU THROUGH THIS

[tech fan]

Based on what you have said you seem to have been in a similar situation or two to what I am in right now. So do you agree with the ingoring thing that I am planning on doing next week with just subtle "hellos" and "how was your day" type stuff but nothing serious until she asks me "whats up" or "are you mad at me?"

NO BUDDY THIS IS WHAT YOU DO ON MONDAY ACT LIKE SHE DOES NOT EVEN EXIST UNTIL SHE TALKS TO YOU.

ON TUESDAY BE VERY NICE AND POLITE AND GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO TALK TO HER.

ONE THING THAT IS A MAIN THING TO ASK ABOUT IS HER KIDS.ALWAYS AND I MEAN ALWAYS ASK HOW HER KIDS ARE DOING.SHOW SOME INTREST IN NOT ONLY HER BUT THE ENTIRE SITUATION

[tech fan]

When You Go Out Always Talk About The Kids And Make Her Laugh Regardless Of What You Do Find Something To Do To Make Her Laugh When You Do You Will Realize That She Is Enjopying Herself.which In Turn Makes You Feel Better.

[tech fan]

OK BUDDY HERE IS THE 87% SUCCESS RATE PICK UP LINE

LIKE I SAID BEFORE GET HER LAUGHING AND YOU ARE IN THE HOUSE

WHEN IN A GROCERY STORE YOU HAVE TO GET A SHOPPING CART.WHEN YOU SEE A NICE LOOKING LADY YOU BUMP INTO HER WITH YOUR BUGGY.THEN YOU SAY,"I AM SORRY BUT I GUESS SINCE WE HAD THIS ACCIDENT WE NEED TO EXCHANGE NUMBERS" THIS HAS A VERY HIGH SUCESS RATE SO BE CONFIDENT AND PLEASE DONT LET THIS OUT THIS IS NOT INTENDED FOR EVERYONE
THIS IS A GOYIN FOR SURE

[Chado1]

NO BUDDY THIS IS WHAT YOU DO ON MONDAY ACT LIKE SHE DOES NOT EVEN EXIST UNTIL SHE TALKS TO YOU.

ON TUESDAY BE VERY NICE AND POLITE AND GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO TALK TO HER.

ONE THING THAT IS A MAIN THING TO ASK ABOUT IS HER KIDS.ALWAYS AND I MEAN ALWAYS ASK HOW HER KIDS ARE DOING.SHOW SOME INTREST IN NOT ONLY HER BUT THE ENTIRE SITUATION

Funny you say this because on Tuesday she left work early to pick up her daughter and I phoned that night and left a message on her voice mail saying I was calling to see how her daughter was feeling. Then on Wednesday morning I went and told her I left the message about that asking about her daughter and she claimed she didnt get it cause she didnt check it cause I left it on her home phone and not cell phone. But either way the main reason why I think I have been messing everything up is because I have been over agressive. i have been continuosly going to her desk and talking to her throughout the day without allowing her to approach me. I have always been the instigator so that was Wednesday. On Thursday I decided to not talk to her and see if she came to me. Unfortunately we just crossed paths and said hello but she never came to my desk at any point throughout the day and the conversation was nothing between us for the first day in the past few weeks. I know she must have thought why hasnt he came and talked to me or whatever but she never approached me all day which I found strange. Then on Friday I was planning on doing the same thing waiting for her to come and talk to me but felt really sick with the flu and didnt go to work. So basically I wont have really had a normal coversation with her until Monday since Wednesday so really need to figure out the best way to approach Monday and what to do???

[tech fan]

Funny you say this because on Tuesday she left work early to pick up her daughter and I phoned that night and left a message on her voice mail saying I was calling to see how her daughter was feeling. Then on Wednesday morning I went and told her I left the message about that asking about her daughter and she claimed she didnt get it cause she didnt check it cause I left it on her home phone and not cell phone. But either way the main reason why I think I have been messing everything up is because I have been over agressive. i have been continuosly going to her desk and talking to her throughout the day without allowing her to approach me. I have always been the instigator so that was Wednesday. On Thursday I decided to not talk to her and see if she came to me. Unfortunately we just crossed paths and said hello but she never came to my desk at any point throughout the day and the conversation was nothing between us for the first day in the past few weeks. I know she must have thought why hasnt he came and talked to me or whatever but she never approached me all day which I found strange. Then on Friday I was planning on doing the same thing waiting for her to come and talk to me but felt really sick with the flu and didnt go to work. So basically I wont have really had a normal coversation with her until Monday since Wednesday so really need to figure out the best way to approach Monday and what to do???

GO TO WORK MONDAY ACT LIKE YOU ARE STILL SICK AND PLAY ON HER SYMPATHY TRY AND GET HER TO PLAY INTO THE MOTHER ROLE AND SEE IF SHE WILL TRY TO TAKE CARE OF YA.
THATS WHAT I WOULD DO

[Chado1]

GO TO WORK MONDAY ACT LIKE YOU ARE STILL SICK AND PLAY ON HER SYMPATHY TRY AND GET HER TO PLAY INTO THE MOTHER ROLE AND SEE IF SHE WILL TRY TO TAKE CARE OF YA.
THATS WHAT I WOULD DO

Your kidding right?

First of all I need to hope that if i dont talk to her that she comes and talks with me first....