Chado "in date" thread

[molta02]

I have no clue what this means....

they all say that........

[molta02]

texting the best idea. quick and simple, and no awkward conversation.....

[Chado1]

texting the best idea. quick and simple, and no awkward conversation.....

would but dont have cell phone....

[BigMike]

If she has kids she might have gotten busy with them. Send a text saying hey, how was your day and see what comes back. If you don't go out this weekend, I would set something up one night this week for u and your co-workers and make sure she can attend. Maybe couple drinks after work, bowling, etc. At least you can get some conversation going away from work.

[Chado1]

If she has kids she might have gotten busy with them.

Thats what I am thinking and she also worked today too....

[Chado1]

Crucial info here guys that I need feedback on that I just remembered....because the date wasnt "definite" when I talked to her on the phone last night night she said she would call me tomorrow "IF" she was going skating with the kids....

[molta02]

Crucial info here guys that I need feedback on that I just remembered....because the date wasnt "definite" when I talked to her on the phone last night night she said she would call me tomorrow "IF" she was going skating with the kids....

was the 'skating' part the date?

[Chado1]

was the 'skating' part the date?

there is a public outdoor rink downtown that she had suggested on Thursday at wokr that she was planning on going to with the kids on Saturday night....like I said it was just an idea she siggested not any kind of definite date and the call you tomorrow "IF" we go skating after our call last night was what threw me off a bit....

[birdog]

"IF" oh man the IF or BUT words we all hate to hear

[Chado1]

"IF" oh man the IF or BUT words we all hate to hear

I know thats what threw me off last night...but like I said it wasnt a definite date or anything just something she had suggest she might be doing and for me to come....

[birdog]

You should just call and see if she wants to go out you guys dont need to go skating. This way you know IF your going out. Suggest something else IF she doesnt want to go skating. That way you get to go out with her

[molta02]

IMO- she might have been hesitant to call you and do the skating thing because of her kids, maybe she felt uncomfortable asking you to do something and dragging her kids along, especically if you haven't hung out much with just her outside of work. some women feel uncomfortable asking guys to do stuff w/ her and the kids, especially in the beginning. single moms can feel like this sometimes, as it can be awkward for them not knowing how the guy feels about the kids at first........

i don't think it would hurt to call her tonight.

edit: maybe don't call if she's got the kids.....

[Chado1]

Alright fellas just called my mom up regarding this and she sd because the plan wasnt definite, and she said she would call me "IF" her kids and herself were going skating, and this is the weekend she has her kids to not call her unless she calls me and that even if she doesnt just talk to her at work on Monday and figure out something for next weekend when her kids will be with the father and she is alone....

[Chado1]

IMO- she might have been hesitant to call you and do the skating thing because of her kids, maybe she felt uncomfortable asking you to do something and dragging her kids along, especically if you haven't hung out much with just her outside of work. some women feel uncomfortable asking guys to do stuff w/ her and the kids, especially in the beginning. single moms can feel like this sometimes, as it can be awkward for them not knowing how the guy feels about the kids at first........

i don't think it would hurt to call her tonight.

A lot similarities in what my mother said regarding everything too....thanks bro...

[birdog]

Calling your mom for dating advise I have to say Ive never done that one But Ive been married for 9 years now and Id be scarded if I was single again