RE: BC Member needing prayers

[baseballdave]

Guys, I just read Rook's post and I know it was about me and my family because John knows what happened. He is right, you guys are like a family to me so I felt I needed to tell you what has happened and why I haven't been posting.
First, John, you are a true friend and a class act and when I read your post I cried because I know you meant what you said.
A few weeks ago, I posted on here that I found out my daughter was pregnant, about 7 weeks along, and I was going to be a Grandad. We found out Tuesday that she lost the baby. The doctors don't know why, just that it happened. She goes to the doctor tomorrow to find out if they can flush the baby out with medicine or if she needs surgery.
I feel so bad, not as much for me, but for my baby girl. As a parent, I want to make all the hurt and pain go away from her and I can't. All I can do is hold her and cry with her and love her, but then I don't feel like that is enough.
Its been hard to stay upbeat knowing how bad she and her husband are hurting, but I am trying. But this sucks.
I don't know what else to say. Your prayers and thoughts are definitely appreciated. We will get thru this and like I told her, she will be a mommy soon.
I'll be lurking for a few days and I hope you guys kill the books, but I'm not in the mood to really handicap right now.
Again, thanks for just listening and for your prayers.

[frazer43]

I can understand I just a couple of years ago lost twins with my wife. She had to have an emergency C-section at 28 weeks and they didn't make it. It is a very tough thing to go through. All you can do is be there for her. I hope everything turns out for the best.

[Spearit]

Dave - Our prayers are with you and family members upon this saddening development. I realize to be happy one moment - feeling something wonderful is taking shape and then losing it is unreal/
Your daughters health is the big thing right now and so we will pray for her and her ablity to conceive again! Take Care My Friend!

[Eagle]

Sorry to here this Dave, I wish you both the best of luck and prayers are with you.



Eagle

[Fenway222]

I honestly am not one of those people who throw religion down someone's throat ... but I really believe there is a reason as to why women lose a pregnancy .... my wife and I went through it ... and it's tough ... because she kept on thinking that she did something to F up the pregnancy, but I told her the exact opposite ... that something wasn't going right and your body did a natural thing and "shut it down." Whether that is the same case with you daughter .... Heaven only knows. I will keep you & your family in my prayers.

Fenway

[beerball101]

dave

sorry for your daughters/ families loss!
prayers out to her &yours, it'll get better.
keep the faith !

[Three Jack]

Dave, hang in there buddy. Not being a parent, I can't relate and I can only imagine how difficult it is for you. All the best to you and your family.

[#55nj]

I'm pulling for you Dave.....

[Chado1]

I am not a parent but I can feel compassion for others when things are rough and my prayers and thoughts will be with you and your family dave!!!

All the best!!!

[soonerbud]

Dave, God does have a plan brother. Unfortunately alot of the time we don't understand those plans. I can only imagine your loss having three daughters myself. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. I pray for Gods healing and his peace on you and your family.

[tech fan]

Dave this happened to me and my wife a year and a half ago.It was a terrible thing to go through.My wife had to have surgery a DNC and the main and most important thing is your daughter.It is tough for us guys but we have always been good at hiding our feelings or just waiting till we are alone to cry like a baby.Comfort her and she needs to know there was nothing she could have done it just happens sometimes.its an extremely hard thing to go through but just reasure her that she did nothing wrong.Women always think what if i would have done this or that and she cant do that.You are in my prayers sir,

[Kaptain]

Dave----hate you are having problems of such a severe nature.......I'm glad you opened up to us as you would a family member......That is what we are......Through all our arguments, picking, ridiculing each other, we remain as one....

I personaly can't relate to what you're going through now, as I've never been in that situation.....I can only urge you on to be the strong one in the family, as I know your wifr, daughter, have to be distraught and confused....

There will be many additional prayers for you and your family tonight my friend, as I know I, and many other of the members here, share in your plight....

God, works in mysterious ways, and we can only lean towards him now, to maybe make things better for you and your family.....

You're in my prayers my man, thanks for stepping up and sharing with us.....Keep the faith.....kaptain

[Lsufan]

Dave, stay strong my man, your daughter needs you, and you need her. These times will be hard, but God will not give you more than you can handle. He will be there for you.

When I saw Rook's post, I turned off my TV and had a quiet time with God. I prayed for the one he posted for, praying for your pain to ease, and praying for Him to be by your side. I have been praying for you ever since.

May God Bless You and your family, and may He shine His light down upon you.

[PSL6978]

hang in there bud. i may be fairly new here but i have no problem reaching out to someone to show some compassion. my prayers are with you and your family

[wayne1218]

Wow Dave tough deal. People say things happen for a reason but i have always had trouble believing that during a loss. My Prayers to your family and hopefully when she does have a child, it will be twice as rewarding.