Guys I Have A Huge Question?

[illjaunt]

bhs, I am sure responses on this topic will range from stay far away to "hit that shit" and probably everything in between. My personal advice would be to CHOOSE ANOTHER FISH IN THE SEA. The age isn't the problem (never is), but a marriage and 2 kids = lots of baggage that can only cause you problems. Aside from the moral issues of getting involved in the middle of a family, think about it man - if the guy finds out and snaps do you really need a bounty out on your head (not probable but who knows right?). You are 19 - enjoy life, party hard and have the time of your life. Mixing around with a 38 year old housewife of 2 kids can only bring you TONS OF GRIEF down the line, and it's just not worth it in my humble opinion. My advice is to stick to the local college bars, get some 20 year old drunk and enjoy yourselves until the sun comes up. Think of what can go WRONG in a situation like this instead of just thinking what would go right lol......

OBE, I could not have said it better myself too many things can go wrong, BHS good luck with whatever you do................................................ ........

ILLJAUNT

[LSUMONSTER]

i am with lsufan

[bhs4life]

GO-3
No-8
Dont get caught-1

[OleBlueEyes]

"DON'T GET CAUGHT!!!"

easiest way not to get caught is to pick some hot 20 year old in a bar instead. bol with whatever you decide pal

[griffey_mojo]

Also I NEVER do anything to someone, I wouldn't want done to me.
These things come back to get you later......

AMEN! Very well said rwall!

[The Lovedoc]

oh hell... after reading all these post i change my vote... dont do it dude.. never mix business with pleasure!! You will be very uncomfortable around her at work.. Like somebody said, there are plenty of hot chicks in florida that need lovin.. go find them!! But, if you do it tonight.. GL

[traditions]

It aint worth it at all....at your age there is plenty of ass out there that dont have all the baggage.....you will understand the other side of it one day when your married and have kids yourself...I love pussy but it aint worth breaking up a marriage and leaving kids with divorced parents. If you cant find anymore ass tonight just use fistina and find some at later date.

[bhs4life]

Alright so i guess no is pretty much a group answer thanks for the advice guys everyone feel free to chime in still, Thanks Again, Charlie

[time2collect]

Fade the No's

Play it like a fade and bang away

[Lsufan]

Morally, one should stay away from these type of endeavors. But, it seems that more and more people are "doing it" these days.

My advise:






DON'T GET CAUGHT!!!

Damn!!! I didn't think so many people would answer so fast. But, I guess when you bring up the word sex in a thread around here, it's like throwing chum in the water...the sharks will come.

I was honestly just joking about the "don't get caught" thing, but it seemed like you wanted to hear that. I was in the middle of typing in my real response, then noticed all of the other "quick" responses. I type real slow.

OBE and Rwall are right. Plenty other fish in the sea. Don't do anything to someone you wouldn't want happen to you. Remember, what goes around, comes around.

Good luck with whatever you decide brother.

[pauliewalnuts]

sounds like she is looking for a 'goomah'. I say go for it!

[knockonwood]

BH, not worth it Man!!! When I was your age I might would have gone for it But I know better now!!! You're asking advice from the Older Guys, your Best interest to listen!!! More women out there this day and time then you know what to do with, why mess with a wife with children!!! Good way to Die Young!!! Maybe next week when her and the Husband get into an arguement, she'll share this nite with him!!! Trust me BH, not worth it man!!! If You don't want anything known, You tell noone!!! You've already shared it with your 2nd family!!! I'm just trying to save you alot of Stress you don't need in your life!!! Best of Luck Bro!!! Brother Knock!!!

[buckeyeben]

lol-- You better hope the Husband is not a member of BC. Although then you could always watch a game together if you get caught. Dont be an idiot--if your 19 then why would you not want 19yr old women.

[traditions]

dont get me wrong older women when you are 19 are greeeaattt.....just get one that has no attachments

[RJeremy]

BHS,

Take it from a guy thats done this many many times before. BE CAREFUL!!!! I've slept with quite a few married women, and the last thing you want is the hubby to find out. Those are the stories you hear about where the husband shows up and kills the girl and the dude that's there with her.

Like RWall said, how would you feel if this happened to you. I can't really talk much because I was sleeping with 43 year olds when I was 19. I guess it comes down to what you want to do. If you're having thoughts about it though and you need to come and ask us, then I would say the answer is NO.