Urgent Please Read/respond!!!! Part 2

[KazDog]

Absolutely. Little golf tourney today at 1230. I'm leaving you in charge since I won't be around.

You left it in good hands my man. Although there are some who might disagree. I was told today by my doctor that I should give up golf because I have a degenerative back disease. Lmao. Yeah. Like me giving it up is ever gonna happen. Better chance of Hell freezing over...

[moondog22]

I'll tell you exactly what it is. Bover is back and you've been throat gargling his DNA ever since

[KazDog]

Off work today sick boys

Throat is killing me
Hope it isn't strep.

Have fun Club

I'll tell you exactly what it is. Bover is back and you've been throat gargling his DNA ever since

[jcindaville]

Off work today sick boys

Throat is killing me
Hope it isn't strep.

Have fun Club

[ToDaClub]

Absolutely. Little golf tourney today at 1230. I'm leaving you in charge since I won't be around.

[KazDog]

Morning Clubber and Moonie....Golf and tennis on tap for today???

[ToDaClub]

Morning gents.

[moondog22]

Good Monday morning guys

[robby_morini]

One more thing


It does take two to get a divorce, it's normally just not one persons doing. I am not here to point blame on Monte, or Joe & Wayne.

I used the marriage analogy because it's the closest thing that I can use to describe the split between these two long term Moderators and Monte.

Thanks JC, I appreciate the response. I, like you, respect Wayne and Spark a great deal and wish them nothing but the best. They kept the site afloat in some difficult times and I can see their point of view.

This is the first site I joined and it was mainly to follow the service plays back in the day. I have since learned that many of the posters here provide winners for free.

There is no way that I can thank Wayne and Spark for all of the time and energy they have put into making and keeping this site one of my favorites. Even though they may feel slighted, I know that these two men want nothing but success for the site going forward, they are both class acts.

Thanks again JC and Kaz for the explanation. The site will survive and if there is anything that I can do to help, please let me know.

I'm just as upset if not more than others that they are leaving. No matter my differences with either of them, I respect them and they bring much to the table.

Thanks JC, I appreciate the response. I, like you, respect Wayne and Spark a great deal and wish them nothing but the best. They kept the site afloat in some difficult times and I can see their point of view.

This is the first site I joined and it was mainly to follow the service plays back in the day. I have since learned that many of the posters here provide winners for free.

There is no way that I can thank Wayne and Spark for all of the time and energy they have put into making and keeping this site one of my favorites. Even though they may feel slighted, I know that these two men want nothing but success for the site going forward, they are both class acts.

Thanks again JC and Kaz for the explanation. The site will survive and if there is anything that I can do to help, please let me know.

[KazDog]

Hopefully someone will step up and let the members know what is happening. I realize no one owes us anything but for the sake of the long term stability of this site it would be nice if someone would address why Spark and Wayne, the two people who kept this site moving over the past 10 years, suddenly resigning with no explanation. I probably speak for many members who aren't as vocal or social as others but proudly support the site by signing up through the various books advertised and can be confirmed by Monte. This is not good.

Somebody?

irreconcilable differences Robbi. That's the best way I know how to describe it.....

I wish Wayne and Joe nothing but the best in their future endeavors. They made a classy exit and didn't bash the site. Monte wanted some changes here and I honestly don't believe that included Joe and Wayne leaving. At all. BC is like a family and sometimes families don't get along with each other. Esp ones on the internet who never really get to know each other, other than their screen name and internet personas.....We've all had our differences in the past and unfortunately, this one couldn't be fixed. None of us expected or wanted this to happen. Trust me about that.

We'll do our best to make this an enjoyable place to be. JC and Kb are two of the best guys I know and I think we'll all make it work. Don't hesitate to ask us for anything. We're here learning and getting comfortable with our roles. Which seem to be changing on a daily basis.

I've made some great friends here and I know Joe and Wayne have done that as well. Thanks for all you have done around here Wayne and Joe. You both left big imprints on the site.


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[moondog22]

thanks JC

[jcindaville]

One more thing


It does take two to get a divorce, it's normally just not one persons doing. I am not here to point blame on Monte, or Joe & Wayne.

I used the marriage analogy because it's the closest thing that I can use to describe the split between these two long term Moderators and Monte.

I'm just as upset if not more than others that they are leaving. No matter my differences with either of them, I respect them and they bring much to the table.

[jcindaville]

Robbie and all other members and guest.

I will try and explain this to the best of my ability.

Monte from my understanding has had some pretty serious health issues which has left him unavailable to the site for the most part.
That has basically left the site to be run by Wayne and Spark, and Spark had some very serious medical issues to contend with this past year. So that left Wayne for a pretty good period of time handling everything and he didn't get much if any communication from Monte. (From my understanding)

IMO like most long term relationships sometimes communication breaks down, thoughtfulness, appreciation, and a certain level of respect is no longer given. People begin to take advantage of one another, much like we all often do with our wives over a long period of time.

IMO when Monte began to get somewhat better physically he was made aware of the rather poor condition BC had become. I think he wanted to make some improvements to boost posting and get the site hopping again, he asked for input from some members and he decided to make 3 of us moderators in an attempt to help out around here. I believe his motives were pure but the lack of communication, the perceived disrespect and some mean words were said that unfortunately cut pretty deep.

I believe Wayne and Joe felt disrespected, not appreciated, and with the combined lack of communication they had there fill and wanted to make a change.

Robbie, it's like a marriage of 10-20 years, it doesn't happen all at once, it's a slow process and it accumulates over the years. You become disenchanted, irritated, aggravated, and finally something is done or said and you are finished.

To sum it up, it's much like that.

I didn't want to comment on this, I feel very uncomfortable doing so, but I do feel obligated to try and offer somewhat of an opinion on it when a member ask the question.

I would much prefer Monte answer this.

I will say one more thing, I want people to know the level of integrity that Wayne and Spark have shown here since their departure. They aren't in here bashing BC, Monte, or anyone else. They have made a decision, been respectful and extremely gracious considering all the years of service. I am very happy to know both of them and hope to maintain a friendship with them both.

I also want everyone to know that I will do my absolute best to make BC a fun place to be.

That's the best I can do Robbie, hope it helps answer a few of your questions

[robby_morini]

Hopefully someone will step up and let the members know what is happening. I realize no one owes us anything but for the sake of the long term stability of this site it would be nice if someone would address why Spark and Wayne, the two people who kept this site moving over the past 10 years, suddenly resigning with no explanation. I probably speak for many members who aren't as vocal or social as others but proudly support the site by signing up through the various books advertised and can be confirmed by Monte. This is not good.

Somebody?

[jcindaville]

Thank you, jc. Man, this is just heartbreaking.

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